Dear members,

Are you so nostalgic that you masturbate on former GF pictures or videos you did together?

I am in trouble now. I left my gf because she had an affair with another man. But I loved her and I miss her. She was so sensual so hot, so nice... I use to look at our pics and vids I woulf like to masturbate but then, terrible ideas come over my mind and I feel so bad, I stop and cry.

Do you masturbate on these kind of photos or is it better to delete my drive from any evidence of our past love?

Thanks and regards

 

Broke up with a girl for the same reason. Never masturbated to our pics and vids after we broke up, but I showed them to a friend one night and I started to tear up. That was only a few months after we broke up. Aa few years later I showed them to him again and didn't cry that time. I just needed a little more time to get over the break up. Since then the data has been sealed in an envelope and locked in a safe. I was worried she might post something out of revenge, so I kept my copies for potential retaliation. Never had the desire to watch them again, nor did I masturbate to them.

15 years since we broke up and I've had a lot of fun with a lot of girls. Rebound sex can be awesome and theraputic, and there's plenty of girls out there. Just takes some time to emotionally heal. But I don't take pictures or videos anymore, as much as I want to sometimes...

 

Many thanks for your testimonial. It's been a fortnight ago and I don't sleep, don't eat very much and cannot concentrate on my job.

I am nearly a sex addict in normal time and she loved that. We made love so many times a day.

Today I am lost and even porn disgust me. I see her in every movie being fucked by everybody.

 

I can't say that I have, but Im not saying that I would never.

 

you'll have to get rid of them 1 day, might as well do it now !

 

Can we swap ex gf pics

 

Yeah, it's tough, and the hardest part is there's not really a way to make it go faster. Distractions help you get through, but they don't really speed things up.

I was pretty lucky, I started a fling with a coworker only a few days after my breakup and she was absolutely incredible in bed. Almost made me pass out once. While my heart was still broken and I was in pretty rough emotional shape, the awesome sex helped distract me and the female company helped me feel less lonely and hopeless. She was also mature enough to break it off after about a month when I started to get emotionally attached. It was a rebound for both of us, and she knew it was best to keep it at that. I look back fondly on those days; skipping lunch for a quickie... mmm....

Anyway, distractions help, but the real key is to just grit your teeth and hang in there.

 

No cant say I have, but then I dont have any Ex Gf pics ( well a couple) but not the kind you would get your junk out over.

I use my imagination when I masturbate or find some hot porn

 

Thanks a lot.

 

Every once in a while. They are pretty. Meh.

 

There are a lot of strangely eloquent posts on this thread, which seems to be in contrast to everything else I have read on this sight. I mean I have never seen someone use "fortnight" in a post until now. Well done!

 

Fortnight means two weeks

 

I hope my exes do

 

Hehe u naughty lil girl x

 

Please correct my English if needed.

 

After a girl cheats on you it is best to just delete them. Nobody deserves to be cheated on, and by keeping them and looking at them it only makes you miss her and want her back. As soon as you can get over her you can start to meet other people that will make you a lot more happy. I always delete any pics or messages so I can't go back and try to figure out where it started to go wrong. You will drive your self crazy if you don't.

 

Thank you. Your analysis seems right. I am sure it is.
Today I miss her so much that I like to listen her voice when she came or when we were in love. I can feel the taste of her body, her sweet skin.

 

Can we trade pics hun

 

Excellent advice, Jeff